We love saints with edited histories and sinners frozen in time. Reality refuses to cooperate. Every saint has a past they survived. Every sinner still has a future available to them.

Most people want safe relationships without doing the work required to become safe themselves. Self awareness is not a personality trait or a spiritual badge. It is the difference between connection and chaos. If you do not know your triggers, your wounds, and your patterns, intimacy becomes a place where damage quietly accumulates.