We are encouraged to be authentic, yet rarely warned about the cost. Most people want the version of you they are comfortable with, not the one that challenges them. Real connection is not about being fully known by everyone, but about being intentional, discerning, and brave enough to stay aligned while choosing the right people to share yourself with.

Leadership is not authority or expertise. It is the ability to solve human problems. When leaders lack the skills to navigate conflict, tension does not disappear. It spreads quietly through disengagement, misalignment, and turnover, turning leadership itself into the organisation’s biggest risk.